What it is like to be me. I wrote this article to try to show other men what it is like to be me, now that I am over my horrible divorce and started to live my life again. Back then, I took a good long look in the mirror, and frankly I did not like what I saw looking back. I can describe what I saw in one word: Emasculated. Inside I was still the same guy I was when I was 18. My core beliefs haven’t hardly changed at all. I still believed I was an honorable man trying to live an honorable life. But somehow, nothing I tried to do with my relationships worked, and in the end, I got divorced again. I had to start trusting myself again and my own instincts. They really were all I had left to rely on. So I started to trust my instincts again, just like when I was 18. When I went on a date with a new woman and my instincts were screaming at me the entire time that this woman was just a clone of my ex’s, I listened. And I watched how she acted and listened to what she said. And I begged off on the second date. When my instincts told me to interrupt another dates endless chatter about herself and ask her again if she just said she got divorced from her 3rd husband because in her mind it was “ME” time, I spoke up and asked “ Did your ex husband ever tell you he was having a “ME “ time?. Let me tell you, it’s not a pretty site watching a narcissistic women grapple with a man who doesn’t just lay down and accept everything she says because she thinks you will accept anything just to get her in bed. Or when the woman I was dating for three weeks told me in a text that she had chosen me over the other guy she was sleeping with and told him that it was over..... I listened to my instincts when my mind told me “ One day this woman will text you with the same message”. So I never texted her back. It was good to be a man again. I realized that our instincts are there to protect us, and that being in a relationship with any women in the west today means eventually ignoring all your instincts. And that is obviously not working out very well for men in the West now is it. So, why don’t you try it sometime. Stand up and be a man, and watch the reaction from your partner. I can almost bet she won’t like it and ask you what is wrong. You see, whether or not you listen to your instincts, you should hear: “ I stand up and act like a man and the woman I am pinning all my hopes and dreams on thinks there is something wrong with me. And that my friends will tell you more about where you stand than anything I or a shrink or a counselor could ever do. There isn’t anything wrong with you, there’s something wrong with your relationship when it falls apart just because you are being a man. Say to yourself: In my past life, I was myself. DSR
Posted on: Sat, 20 Jul 2013 06:22:41 +0000
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