When you control the things and people around you so that you can get the outcome you want it is not relationship it is manipulation. Controlling everything to protect your own feelings is manipulation. If you think your input into the relationship is more important than the person your relating to you are seeking for a certain outcome and not truth. Healthy relationships are not bred out of manipulations but out of Vulnerability and risk. Making a point at the risk hurting others while protecting your own interest is very dangerous. Just be real, risk being real, if others dont like you because of who you are then they are not healthy for you anyway. If others like you for who you pretend to be then the entire relationship is a lie and will soon fall apart. God made you a gem, a one of a kind, his finger print is upon you. Changing who you are to fit in with others is telling God he made a mistake. Many times while people are spending their life trying to fit in with one crowd they miss a life a blessings from others who love them for who and what they are. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Be the best you that you can be. Now thats is the best Christmas present that you can give yourself. *Rodney*
Posted on: Sat, 20 Dec 2014 17:17:46 +0000
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