When you do something because of yourself the final product will always be double the celebration, Ive met women who like hiding their flaws in the disguise of their husbands aka Mume wangu in swahili, You see a woman literally overweight and would do with some gym and when you ask her to go to they gym she will say Mume wangu apenda nikiwa mnene My hubby loves some meat, lol,Fine! and lucky you! but what about your health? will your hubby also like it when you start getting hypertension, diabetes, and obese? Speaking as a woman who has had issues with weight, i know damn well when the scale reaches a certain point, the gym and i become buddies again :) (Speaking of which, November here i come ) Same goes to those who are super skinny. Girl can you at least eat some burger? My hubby likes me this way . You mean bonny? what happens when you become anorexic? will your hubby then allow you to have some chicken soup ? :) What about you? what do you like? A woman literally unkempt , has no dreams of her own, cannot even take some certain simple decisions like which curry to make that day, all in the name of My hubby this my hubby that, Some are so phony that they will literally not go anywhere ( and its not because her hubby has refused) but because she just finds the best scapegoat to use would be saying my hubby did not give me the permission to come At the end of the day such women make me wonder ( and am speaking as a married woman so no pan intended) who are you when that hubby of yours (God forbid) passes on? who were you before you got yourself into hiding behind your hubby? Who are you even living for? Am sure before you got married you had a dream, you had a hobby, you used to be someone, since when did you give all that away? If your hubby was to look for that lady he once married, will he really find the old you? the one who used to laugh without a care? the one who loved associating with other women before you got paranoid that the same women would snatch your hubby away? the one who liked looking good and keeping fit for her own sanity, happiness and good health? Who are you? Stop living in denial and using someone else as your cover page, stop loosing your identity just because now you have someone to call a hubby, stop being a turn off to life, to the world! and start embracing the people around you, the things around you....Wake up and start living, and if you cant do that then stop being a phony-That hubby is yours only in that house when hes out he has his own life which if you check closely, is way much interesting than yours! :)
Posted on: Tue, 21 Oct 2014 08:26:41 +0000