When you need or want someone to complete you or to make you happy, you are not qualified to be in a relationship. In order for a relationship to function properly you need to be complete and happy before you are able to add some of your happiness to anothers life - you cannot add anything to anyone unless you have that to add - you also cannot hold another responsible for replacing what is missing in your life because whatever is missing will remain so unless you take responsibility for giving that to yourself. Their presence may deceive you into feeling whole and complete but their absence will soon remind you of what is missing and often lead you to believe that they are responsible for your unhappiness. When you are whole and nothing is missing your cup will runneth over with love and happiness to share - until then you are not qualified - Michelle Adamou
Posted on: Mon, 05 Aug 2013 17:53:49 +0000