**Why are there so many marriageable ladies yet still single?** The problem with Women: Women have little or no problem at all, except for playing “difficult to get” when their “husbands” come calling. Unfortunately, some men don’t like being fooled around by women. When they make an attempt and nothing comes forth in time, they withdraw completely! I have seen some cases where some women delayed responses to men’s proposal for 6 months!! That’s crazy!! Well, some men can have such a dogged determination, but not all of them. When U hear a woman giving testimony that her husband waited for 2 years before she finally accepted him and U think that is also ideal for U, too bad!! In addition, Allah’s will may clash with human will in many women. They seem to be too choosy, wanting a kind of man or the other. Fantasies are very common among women, but it is usually better to allow Allah’s will to prevail and always better to express your desires in prayer rather than in fantasies. I know of a woman in my area that said she and her husband married in a single room with only one mattress for them to sleep. Between 7 and 10 years later, they are one of the richest people in town, living in a huge mansion and with fleet of cars. I pursued a lady for almost a year. Yet, the lady kept saying NO!! Just 3 weeks to my wedding to another lady, this first lady started sending friends to beg me to accept her. But, it was too late!! She eventually got married to someone else, but she kept telling friends that she is not enjoying her marriage. Many ladies are involved in this kind of situation. I think every lady needs to be closer to Allah at the period of choosing a man to marry more than any time else in life!! Sometimes, a lady may get 5 or more proposals at the same time, and there are seasons that a man may not even look at her twice let alone get a date invitation. Allah’s wisdom is required to manage these contrasting situations, as they say “opportunity comes, but once...” I strongly believe that many single ladies of 30 years and above who are desperate to get a husband had at one time in their lives received proposals, which they threw in trash can out of pride and are now regreting it bitterly.
Posted on: Sat, 22 Jun 2013 22:33:05 +0000
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