You can never change a person to be who and what you want in your life, but YOU,, can be the reason he/ she changes.. You can see a lot of questions from people on how a person they love, can change to who they want, forgetting that, when they change him/ her, its the reflection of themselves they would be in love with, not the real THEM.. LET THEM BE!. If a person is to change for any reason,, let them change in their own will, with you as part of the reasons to it,, through your constant caring approach, wisdomed words, and not just pressures or conditions.. But you can still require them to.. Having a self- requirement before accepting someone, is far different from putting out a condition before they can be with you.. Its your STANDARD that presents /define you and what whoever would come unto you, would be well prepared /acknowledged / cautioned of. Like you already know, CHANGE IS CONSTANT!,, no one would remain what he /she has long being, forever.
Posted on: Thu, 10 Oct 2013 11:42:39 +0000