You cant please everybody, matter of fact God didnt create not one person on this earth to please anybody. Human purpose goes much deeper than the feelings & pleasing of another person, but far too often we get distracted in people. Those who say they love you, should do so unconditionally, & if not, you cant force them. You are just as valuable as the next person, so why go to extra lengths to make that known? Who you are should never need defending. If they dont appreciate you for who you are, then they dont appreciate you period. Thats Just life. When you have spent your life living for others, depending on people to validate you, make you feel better about you, chasing friends and friendships, always needing people to make you feel wanted or needed, then when you are suddenly alone, its uncomfortable. But if you suffer with any of these issues, loneliness is what you need! Not forever, but at least for a season. Forget the past, forget the reasons, the rejection, those are all excuses that are used to Stay stuck. You see, JESUS wants to be the One you are searching for. Dont you know that God put a need for himself in your life? Your purpose lies in him, so you must know him to know YOU! Your reason for being lies in him, not people. And when you spend your life chasing friends or using people to find yourself, all you end up doing is having a bunch of one sided relationships, because you are searching for answers in the wrong places.
Posted on: Tue, 04 Nov 2014 01:34:35 +0000