You should expect that you will never really “get over” the death of your child, but you will learn to live with the loss, making it a part of who you are. Your child’s death may compel you to rethink your priorities and reexamine the meaning of life. It may seem impossible, but you can go on to find happiness and purpose in life again. For some parents, an important step may be to create a legacy for your child. You may choose to honor your child by volunteering at a local hospital or a cancer support organization. Or, you may work to support interests your child once had, start a memorial fund, or plant trees in your childs memory. It is important to remember that it is never disloyal to your child to re-engage in life and to find pleasure in new experiences. Each of your children changes your life. They show you new ways to love, new things to find joy in, and new ways look to at the world. A part of each childs legacy is that the changes he or she brings to your family continue after death. The memories of joyful moments you spent with your child and the love you shared will live on and always be part of you.
Posted on: Wed, 14 Jan 2015 10:49:42 +0000