You spend your life using lovers to avoid your pain; to avoid your suppressed grief and anger and fear. You enter the twin flame relationship thinking that he/she will be your best hope of doing just that. You imagine that you will finally be happy and whole because they are in your life. But to your surprise, your twin flame leads you straight into the discomfort you were trying to avoid. All of your un-integrated aspects surface for integration so that you can become whole in and of yourself once more. What makes the twin flame unique is that he/she holds your hand through this process of self-liberation whilst you are holding their hand through the very same process, which is simultaneously taking place within them. The manifestation of the twin flame is the manifestation of the path of integration. The path of integration is not a comfortable path and it is not an easy path. Because of this, the soul mate/twin flame relationship is not a relationship which will always feel like joy. It will also feel uncomfortable. It is designed to both initiate and support you through your discomfort. Discomfort is the feeling of being confronted by your surfacing shadow. The fate that you feel within the relationship, is the destiny inherent within the relationship. A destiny that was decided upon by you before your birth. The destiny is that you will lead each other straight into the discomfort of integrating what you were trying to use each other (and other previous partners in your life) to avoid. But you will be holding hands as you walk into that discomfort. -Teal Swan-
Posted on: Tue, 29 Apr 2014 00:35:55 +0000
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