hey zane, i emailed you before the person had you put in time out lol, please keep me pravite ,ok this for the men to reply but i know some of the woman on here gonna comment.ok here we ,My brother was kicking with onesome,well i know of her she seems like a nice person ,Anywho ,he found that she used to talk to one of his homie back in high school ,i knew that ,but i didnt tell him,his homie saw a pic of them when they went to maytrel beach ,the homie called him and said oh you know she and had sum going on,he was like nawl i didnt ,So my brother asked her about he said they did but that was like 7 years ago,I know about the homie code (dont mash your homies ex) well she and the homie didnt date they just kicked like friends,,for the first time i saw my brother happy ,So i called her and asked about it ,she said yes him and the homie jus kicked it nothing serious ,She started crying I was like ole lord ,So i asked my brother to jus set down and talk to her ,he said no. so i called the homie he said they kicked it and the conversation went left real quick,the stated that my brother gonna be with and he was gonna make sure of that ,i was like WTF ,i told him boy please ,I know you dont suppose to talk to someone that your friends dated or kicked or etc ,I had a get together and yes i invited her ,they saw each other ,the look on his was like he was glad to see her ,but seeing my brother cry cry that night it did something to my heart,I need to figure out how to get them back together ,,My question is fellas would you date someone that one of your homies dated sum years ago after you found out that they use to kick it,date etc.or do i just stay out it and let them figure it out, Oh ya before you battlelack and scallywaggs start going start judging and going in on her GETYOURDAMNLIFE Im sure some of you have done worse and probable still doing it . MY RESPONSE: You want opinions but then go in on people before they respond. It is not like you have been creeping so pump your brakes. With that being said, you need to stay out of their relationship altogether. It is up to him to decide whether or not to still date her after discovering that she did something with one of his friends years ago. This is not unusual, even in big cities. Men and women who hang out together tend to be attracted to the same kind of people with similar traits. They are close friends because of similar traits and interests so it is not rocket science to predict that at some point they might find similar people attractive. The fact of the matter is that no one can change their past and if they dated seven years ago, obviously it did not work out and they never pursued it further. It is not like she chose his friend over him. She did not even know your brother yet. He needs to be mature and either accept it or leave it alone. But for him to break up with her because of something she did seven years ago is absurd, especially if he is already in love. Apparently, the young lady did not even see your brothers friend until the get-together. It is not like she was hanging out with your brother and him and not saying a word. If not for a throwback photo, it would have been a dead issue.
Posted on: Sun, 01 Jun 2014 14:36:00 +0000
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