#realtalk #righhere #been #through #it #all The jumping We Effortlessly Do.. I dont know why we do this, but it has been proven that it is in our nature to jump to conclusions without all the evidence needed. We look at someone and we quickly judge that person by her clothes, her skin colour, the way she walks, and so many other things that we quickly pick up by just casting our eyes in her direction. And we are so hard to please-if her hair is not well done, we think shes careless but if her hair is well done, we think shes too proud of it; if she smiles at everyone, we think shes trying too hard, but if she doesnt smile at all, we think shes a snob. And our standards go on and on, never reaching an attainable point. I am ashamed to say that I have been on both sides of this fence. I have been judged and I have judged others .When I judged and later found out that I was completely wrong about that person, I felt as if I was the worst friend anyone could ever have. My thoughts about that person had been evil, angry , and malicious and when I think of it, I feel ashamed of myself, especially because that person ended up being this amazing woman I now know. Back when all this jumping to conclusions occurred, I thought she was this empty woman trying to be someone she was obviously not. A few years later , I came to know her better and I realised I had judged her totally wrong. She didnt know but God did and He saw how impure my eyes were towards her. If I could, Id undo all those useless thoughts I let into my mind. Then I found myself being judged-quite a few times actually. And it felt so unfair. I wanted to prove people wrong, I wanted to say something, but how could I? there was a time I wanted to prove them wrong so badly that I just could not rest until I did. I started to try too hard, doing anything and everything to make those people see that I wasnt what they thought I was. But nothing I did or said changed anything until I grew up spiritually and realised that I shouldnt waste my time and life trying to prove to people that theyre wrong about me, that I would never ever please everyone, and that I would always come short of everybodys expectations-after all, Im human! Sometimes people forget that we humans are suppose to make mistakes. Well never be good enough for people and that is okay, because we dont need to be good enough for them. God has chosen us this way, full of mistakes and shortcomings, He knew about all our weaknesses and still chose us from the midst of so many other women in this who are probably more educated, more successful, and more everything. He didnt choose them but He did choose me. Can anyone ask more than be selected from among millions and millions of others just to make a difference in this world by their faith?? Despite all youve been or done. Dont lose this prize trying to impress people who arent really going to make any difference in your life, instead, impress the only One who is worthy!! Give Him your best and your all and wait and see His justice served in your life. #whatiwentthrough ...#blessed
Posted on: Mon, 14 Jul 2014 09:58:16 +0000
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