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so many women, including myself, vent about their hurt and frustration about all the men that have mistreated and hurt them. I am not a man basher, in fact i love men, probably more than i should haha. But i cant help but notice how many women have been wronged and i almost never hear guys talking about how awful a woman treated them. I am wondering how much of that is due to men not being as open and vocal about. I know some really wonderful guys, but have known many more hurtful ones. Now im not saying all women are perfect angels, there are some really crazy and mean ones, and in general women tend to have their own set of flaws, like nagging, or being needy or controlling. But i do think that overall women are a more peaceful, nurturing and advanced gender. We are all humans, and ultimately souls, i dont mean to divide us, but the facts are that men are responsible for the majority of violence, and mistreat women in much higher numbers that the other way around. I remember reading about a native american tribe where the women were in charge and their biggest and most important rule was that there be no war among the tribes. Women tend to be much more kind, gentle, loving, nurturing and peaceful than men. A friend i used to have said that women evolved to a certain point like a few hundred years ago and weve just been waiting for the men to catch up. I really mean no disrespect to men, or to offend anyone, like i said, i do know some guys who are wonderful and are the exception to the rule. I encourage everyone, male or female, to learn to always treat others with respect and love, or at least decency and kindess. I feel you, all you women out there who have been hurt. It is up to us to stand up for ourselves, only allow those who treat us right to stay in our life, and forgive those who hurt us. And to release anger and judgement and learn to have understanding and compassion, realize that the people who hurt others are in alot of pain themselves and dont know how to show love in a healthy way, and want to be loved, just like all of us do
Posted on: Fri, 02 Aug 2013 02:52:55 +0000

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