#thinking.... Sometimes we are accused of saying the wrong thing to people. I know because Ive been accused many times. When in actuality what WAS SAID was not what the PERSON HEARD. We must take responsibility for our own HEARING ! & stop being quick to lay the blame on what a person SAID EXAMPLE... Husband: Baby are you gonna wear those pants to the movies? Wife: oh what you trying to say, they make me look fat!. Husband: Baby I was hoping you were wearing them because they are my favorite one you have! ...He didnt say anything negative, but She HEARD something negative, b/c of her own insecurities. How many times have someone said something to you that hurt your feeling, and it was ....all because of the WAY YOU HEARD WHAT THEY SAID, NOT BECAUSE OF WHAT THEY SAID! LESSON,.. CONVERSATION IS A TWO WAY STREET, ONE TALKS & THE OTHER LISTENS & HEARS; THE ONE TALKING IS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT THEY SAY, & AND THE ONE LISTENING IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HOW THEY HEAR! Dont let your thoughts, insecurities, imaginations, problems, interfere with & dictate how you hear during a conversation with others. My prayer is that this will help others, in Jesus name, Amen! ~Sis. Diva ~
Posted on: Sat, 27 Sep 2014 19:00:05 +0000
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