this is in re. to also gays post re. warnings. but not to disrespect her post, again i share from my page. my x and physical violence, insulting one in front of others,and ones face is his his canvas or anywhere on the body that is visible to show his art. idsplaying one to certain others that think like him,and to show his art to them, getting praised. these are similar to him how they did their women. and telling one another that WE KNOW HOW TO PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE. i had gained some weight about the 2nd year. and then i gained. i was expecting. but afraid to tell him and afraid of what he may do re a child. he was good to his kids and others. but not always to me. so.. i feared. i was in the midst of trying to get away.so he was out with a girl, his cousins daughter, . then he decided to talk to me. he was concerned i was gaining weight. still i said nothing. so he had me follow him to his cousins x wifes mamas. and i had to agree to go to a gym if i wanted him to stay. so me, him , the girl he was with and the mamaof her, went and gined up compliments pending of me. when i went to my first session , my coach asked why? he knew me and he waid you are expecting , that is all it is. so i explained and he adjusted my work out. but he said it was not right for him to do that. if you wonder why i share. i am told with some groups it is ok be it group speciic for this or regular groups as long as the subject or similar comes up. i could not tell anyone 92-98. he would not leave. for alterior motives. but if i would call shelters he would say he would get even with them and any one trying to help me would be harassed. but i did get rescued in 98. by the police. and the guilty paid. he had left in nov. showed back up feb 98, angry. and i was in bed. and the lights went on. he had gotten in , guess he had kept the key. and someone tried to change locks but it was a good strong door. think it had lead in it. guess he had come in. so when i tried to get away from him. i ran into the bathroom and sat on the tub. i heard the door open and shut in the living room. thought he was gone . i went back to bed, he was in the closet. so i ran reaching for the regular phone and could not get to it. so i found my cell. i tried to go out the door. but could not. i left the big door open. i talked to 911 . and he said that by the time they got here i would be.... he came from the kitchen with the knife just then 911 showed up.. and he had not locked the storm door. they came into get him and took him away. the next day my present husband who i had only met 1x in 97 . came to also rescue me. he had been to a friend of a friends house who was also a friend of x. and he was bragging about the lasts nights events. he had been released on bail. laws were not as strict back then. so russ said i had to get out i was not safe, and he rescued me and my family pets. and moved us to his home. and believe me it started to be like with my x. aout 5 years into the marraige. i said H ! NO ! i write all this cause if i saw these warnings i did not see them for what they were. like everything is going to be ok. i still had not learned. i had been in these realtionships for the wrong reason. first losing my mama and daddy.the 1stx then trying to escape a monster , my x. almost walking into a nightmare, again. and the nightmare happened. but it ended. and no more nightmares. so donot be like me. PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO THESE WARNINGS. THANK YOU.
Posted on: Wed, 24 Dec 2014 13:26:02 +0000