ways to keep the love of your husband 1. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female–a man doesn’t want a man for his wife! 2. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break. 3. Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?” 4. Stop nagging non-stop before Allah ta’ala gives you something really to complain about. 5. Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in Islam. Focus on fulfilling your obligations, not demanding your rights 6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it. 7. Compliment him on the things you know he’s not so confident about (looks, intelligence, etc.) This will build his self-esteem. 8. Tell him he’s the best husband ever. 9. Call his family often. 10. When he’s talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it seem like you’re interested. 11. Encourage him to do good deeds. 12. If he’s in a bad mood, give him some space. He’ll get over it, ins ha Allah. 13. Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter. It’s a big deal. 14. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something. 15. When you’re mad at him, don’t say “YOU make me furious”, rather, “This action makes me upset”. Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him. 16. Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration. 17. If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really. 18. Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings. 19. Don’t get mad over small things. It’s not worth it. 20. Tell him you’re the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know you’re good at.......
Posted on: Wed, 19 Mar 2014 18:56:34 +0000
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