10 Things Never to Say to a Guy… Health Topic 11/10/2013 Perhaps You Feel That You Have Been Unsuccessful In Relationships and You Wonder “Why Don’t Guys Hang Around?” After reading 10 Things Never to Say to a Guy/Watch Video on #7 for More… 1. Do I Nag Too Much? Don’t Nag… Instead keep yourself busy and understand he will respond after asking him a question/favor, etc. when he feels like calling or when he is interested. 2. Am I Fat? Guys hate this question and most prefer to be honest. Unfortunately, if he honest and it is true that you may be caring a around a few extra pounds and you know it… You will feel insulted by his response. 3. He ask… Is There Something Wrong? A Guy Surely Not A Mind Reader. So, if you do not tell he will not probe and resume life as normal. 4. Is Your Buddy Bob Having Financial Problems Or An Affair? Most guys do not like to know about information that could get themselves or their friends into trouble. And even if he does want to hear it, he really shouldnt. Its bad enough he has to hear about yours. 5. You Act Just Like My Ex- or You Remind Me Of My Ex-… A comment like this won’t do much for his self-esteem so it is best to keep it to yourself. 6. When we’re married/have kids… This seems pushy/rushed/trapping to some guys which can be a Turn Off to them. Unless you want to scare your dating guy or love one (who is not ready for children) away, keep these thoughts and dreams to yourself. There will surely be a time for discussing shared life goals but only after your partner has clearly indicated that he would like to spend his life with you. 7. Did You Still Think about or Desire to Spend Time with Her (ex-girlfriend)? Most guys feel uncomfortable about such questions and for this reason he may avoid a direct answer, not because he doesn’t want to come clean about his past. For your man, the only thing important is that he is no longer doing so and you would do well to respect his choice. It is OK to know about past relationships before developing a committed relationship along with other things... But Timing Is Important... Watch: digtriad/news/gms/article/304024/67/Dating-What-to-Know-Before-Commitment 8. Do Not Pretend That You Are Not Upset When You Are… Having a long face and keeping your arms crossed tightly, all the while denying that anything is wrong will not help the relationship at all. So it is far better to share what is bothering you instead of wasting your time - and your guy’s too - by sulking. It is not attractive and may drive him away for longer periods of time. 9. Here We Go Again… Dismissing your guy’s concerns is a sure fire way of making him feel stupid and immature. You do not have to agree with your guy about everything but discounting his concerns will not only make him feel worthless but discourage him from making any efforts to resolve any issues in future. This does not empower him and Your Man Needs to Feel Empowered… 10. “You always ignore me” Choose Your Words Wisely… One of the rules of fighting fair is to avoid making absolute statements – these usually include the words ‘always’ or ‘never’ like “we never do the things I like anymore”. When you start making such exaggerated complaints, you come across as needy and a whiner and neither is an attractive trait in a lover. Also, Visit: linkedin/pub/jill-white-huffman/43/a6a/756 jillwhite-huffman/ jillwhite-huffman.org/ **The views represented are expressly those of Jill White-Huffman, LPC and Massage Therapist. The guidance and instruction provided does not replace that of a medical professional. Should you feel the need to seek out help for any ailments or problems you may be having please schedule an appointment as reading this information does not substitute a therapist-client session. If you have an emergency please dial 911 immediately.
Posted on: Mon, 11 Nov 2013 00:09:30 +0000