10 Things Your Woman Wish You Know. Couples World, Singles Corner. Do you think you are the perfect man because your relationship or marriage is in a good state and there’s no complain from your wife/fiancee? I say congrats to you but you have to study this article well to know if she’s happy or quiet. Are you the type that says ‘fine’ when she asks ‘How do I look?’ or you’re in a social gathering and you’re flirting with colleagues and other ladies around and she smiles and you think everything is fine? You introduced her to your friends with her first name and she’s quiet about it does not mean she’s cool with it. Read this and make proper adjustments. 1. Do not ever try to impress women by being fake Be real and be yourself. A fake life is too expensive, moreso that it can’t be for long till your real self finds its way out smoothly. 2. Don’t be mean to her, be flexible but not too simple lest we take you for granted Taste your words before saying them to her; harsh words hurts and leave a print on her heart. Although we know there will be time where you will have to be firm, note I said ‘firm’ not ‘harsh’, there is a difference between the two. 3. Not all ladies care about money The ones who do give us all a bad name. Don’t be too fast to impress her with cash, its a turn off for some ladies. Take time to know her type! A real woman is not majorly interested in spending your money but in building your empire with you. 4. You better introduce her as your wife/fiancee When you’re dating a lady and you introduce her to your friends, you had better say that she’s your woman or else… 5. Keeping secrets is cheating Anything you say or do with another lady that you don’t want us to know is considered cheating, no more no less. Therefore be transparent, let her know your friends (both gender), be proud of her. Don’t be excessively protective of your handset, some women think there’s something fishy when you do that and thereby making her trust shake. 6. We worry if you don’t text us back We check our phones every hour to see if you have replied to our texts, then worry if you haven’t. Sometimes she gets happy by simply seeing that she gets an e-mail/sms/ping from you. *smiles* 7. There is more to the question ‘How do I look?’ “Fine” is never an appropriate response when she asks you ‘how do I look?’. She wants you to compliment her, probably wants you to notice something. Tell her she is amazing, we are self- conscious by nature, we can’t help it. Every time you’re around other girls, we worry they are better than us. If you’re talking to a female friend of yours, pull your woman closer, It’ll make her feel secure that you love her more than the other lady. When you are guilty of this offence you could patch it up easily by getting close to her and whisper your apology in her ear and tell her how precious or pretty she is in that person’s presence. 8. When she’s mad, she wants you to give her attention When she gets touchy at you, she really wants you to tell her you love her, re-assure her of your love. And when she ignores you, give her attention. All boils down to attention, women love attention, give her attention; you have her whole heart! 9. Don’t forget her birthday or anniversaries, valentine’s day and so on, it means more than enough… 10. Don’t be stingy, and don’t spend excessively, be moderate. Give surprise gifts, like it or not we love gifts. Above all, a Godly woman will also want you to be spiritually inclined, a man who will be able to lead the spiritual affairs while she supports. Just like a man said ‘a man is not only adjusted as the head but also the foundation’. You are the foundation upon which we (ladies) stand while you (men) stand in Christ as your foundation and if the foundation is faulty or not strong, we know the end of that story! Marriage organogram or chart is God (Christ) ~ Man ~ Woman (‘~’ stands for ‘to’) as seen in Eph.5:22-33.
Posted on: Fri, 18 Jul 2014 09:58:12 +0000