2014 was certainly a year for the record books. I see everyone posting their ‘year in review’ and ‘news reel’ and all I can do is cry when I see mine, so I left that alone. I’ve had the worst and best things happen to me all in the span of a few months. I went from the lowest lows to the highest of highs and every point in between. I have been supported by the best people on the planet, and I have supported so many and helped everyone I could help. I have also been let down and have done my share of disappointing people and not being the person I should have been. And for that I am sorry. I’m now calling 2014 my year of change. Nothing is the same at the end of 2014 as what it was when it started, and with those life lessons I am changing to be a better person. Better to the ones I love, better to the ones who need help, just an overall better guy. I am also changing the way I help people and who I help. The days of taking and taking and taking from me with no intent on returning are over. Some ties will be severed, some painfully…some happily. I’m always open to repair those ties, but not until I see they are worthy of changing for and genuinely want to improve themselves first. 2014 was also the year of the ‘rumor.’ So many relationships and friendships were hurt or ruined because of gossip and rumors. If you would just take a minute to ask the person involved instead of taking what your friends cousins hair dresser heard to be fact so many of these conflicts could have been avoided. And if that person chooses…..they can set you straight or they can let you go on believing whatever you want. Some people need gossip because they are bored, some like it because it deflects from their own issues and some people are just assholes and like to stir up stuff. Whatever the reason just keep in mind that someone’s life is effected by that gossip. Someone’s child will hear it, someone’s family member will hear it, and all it does is hurt people. Thank you all for the love and support that you have given me and my family. Thank you all for being there for me when I needed you. Thank you all for sticking by me even when I didn’t do what was expected or what was ‘normal.’ Those that don’t or won’t will be missed, I don’t have the time or the want to try and help you understand my reasons. Even though I may not have done what you would have done, doesn’t make it wrong or less valid. I’m calling 2015 a ‘Year without Facebook .’ I’m not going to be on Facebook anymore after today. If you need me you can text me or email me at [email protected] I hope you all have a great new year and make the best of who you have and what you have….you may not have it tomorrow. Please treat each other well because you never know what a person is going through.
Posted on: Wed, 31 Dec 2014 17:33:45 +0000
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