7/7/14 Focusing with only the intensity that you can on the situation at hand. You can not let what is going on make you sensitive. Keep focused on you and what you have to do to keep your balance. Your passions are yours and you will keep them to yourself. Others may feel you are cold and hard on them, but you have to protect your heart. The turmoil you have been through has made you withdrawal. You can not take that risk when you never know when the rug will be pulled out from under your feet. Others may think you are thinking about this to much, but when you never know how someone is going to act towards you then you have to harden your heart to protect yourself. Your feelings are deeper then they realize, but when egos always get in the way it bring the worse out in the situation. You want intensity, but when everything becomes difficult then you have to look at the reasons why. Are you sabotaging yourself because you fear what this change represents. You know what you want emotionally, but to be vulnerable means you could get hurt again. Why dont you try going with the flow and take the risk? What you want is waiting, but you are going to have to communicate in a way that shows you mean what you are saying. This time it has to come from the heart. Being fickle and flighty has only shown you the superficial pleasures, but building what is real takes appreciation of those who surround you. When your actions are selfish and self serving then you have to change your actions. The past has shown you there will be no foundation to build if you hurt those who are important to you. Everyone wants to know they are secure and when you continually push their limits they will leave you standing on your own. When someone becomes manipulative it is due to their fears. Fears are what keeps everyone in their own private hell, for when you have no trust and cause turmoil for others they will make the choice to change their life and walk away from you. No one wants havoc in their heart or life. Until you show others you can meet them halfway with the changes that need to be made then you will have to accept you will never have the trust and honesty you want. Everyone wants compassion and the truth. When you build an illusion people see it is a lie and then they will find a structure that will validate their needs and honor the things they want in life.
Posted on: Sun, 06 Jul 2014 04:42:22 +0000
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