#85 Male 2013 Well I guess this is the first confession by a - TopicsExpress



          

#85 Male 2013 Well I guess this is the first confession by a senior in this page, so let this be something which might be helpful..also I am keeping it very informal..its very long though.. The main point of this confession is that I am one of those many seniors who wasted their life as a fresher by staying in the room all the time playing games or any other reason and I can see it is continuing in the juniors as well. So I didnt want juniors to waste time and screw up time like we did. If there are any grammatical or any other errors please ignore and if I went personal anywhere please excuse me. August 1st 2013, The day when I entered the best place which is going to leave best moments in my life. I first entered the college with a lot of hopes and expectations. During the admission process, Me like most of the other guys was looking for any good looking girl in the queue. Of course I was surprised to meet few people whom I know earlier and going to join the college and be my batch mates. So the admission day went on well and I made new friends. Now I entered my room along with my parents and they were happy with the room. I still remember my dad telling me dont waste any one day thinking u still have 4 years because every single day counts. I never knew how important and useful advice that was at that time. I ignored it. Mom also said me to keep my room neat, behave good with people and study well( well, thats obvious) and many other things. I just said an ok to every of their advice. Now after few senti scenes, my parents left the place. At first like anyone I really was worried how am I going to stay in this new place without parents as I was new to hostel life, at the same time I was excited as well. Now slowly we were getting used to college life. Late night fun, new friendships, north south quarrels(which I still hate the most in this campus), anc aur bru ka mazaa and mainly T1 tension( but padhai tho start nahi karte hai hum :p ). Days passed and then came exams.I saw people preparing more seriously than how they did for JEE. Poora tension se ho gaya T1. Most of them who are not used to freedom got screwed up. I was one of them sadly. So sabne serious promise lia Ki lets rock T2. It was atmos time. I am in one of the clubs so I was a part of inauguration. The late night preparation for inaug, team work and new friends made in the club all of the things were pretty exciting. Atmos inaug got over and it went well. Then atmos came. Here comes first confusion and depression in campus. All of a sudden from no where I see my batch mates who seemed like knowing nothing participating in coding competitions, line followers, junkyard wars what not. Everyone was good at something. The biggest depression that time was i am not good at anything (I guess most of them would have got that feeling). So i thought OK let me start off with something and go into learning. The biggest mistake that time was I was trying to learn something just because everyone is good at something and was not genuine interest. People please please do anything with interest. Dont do something just because everyone is doing it. So atmos was finished, I checked out all programming languages but proceeded with none. This is because just before I could do something T2 was on the way. Well before T1 we atleast went classes but after t1 most of us didnt so we really needed to prepare for exams. So my learning process stopped there again. And also in between there was freshers and fervour where most of the guys are left single except few whom most of us end up feeling jealous of. T2 hua..same scenes of T1. Now to recover compre is going to be key. So again before we do something to get out of t2 depression compre came. Compre ho gaya and it went better than t1 and t2. But on the whole academically semester screwed. Well you might be thinking why am I saying all this to u. Losing grades doesnt really depress us sooo much because many face that. But what really confuses and depresses most of the juniors who experienced similar things like these is thinking about learning something just because everyone is good at it and thinking about girls. Many of us dont admit it but we always wanted to have a girl. When a boy and a girl go on the road late night we call it PDA but Mann me we have a feeling that yaar why is our life like this? Juniors let me tell you. Though it is very very tough if you get over that thinking, then you can really do wonders. We open fb for these kind of reasons only. And except for very few fb is not so useful for anyone of us. You might ask me why am I using it then. Well let me tell u I wasted my first year and I dont want you juniors to do the same and regret later after u become a senior. So, stop thinking about having a girl friend first and then stop thinking about getting into politics. This one thing is my personal opinion. Politics in campus is the main reason for north- south difference. So I literally pray all the juniors to stop this culture and be a BITSIAN all the time not a LOCALITE OR NON-LOCALITE. And if u havent started off with anything to learn till now. Dont worry its still not late. You have second semester and also few more holidays. You might be worried if your second semester will be wasted like your first semester, so in my next confession I will shortly describe how second semester can be screwed(by explaining my life) and how you can avoid it. There are many many points which I couldnt cover here but a confession cant be a book :p . So I will stop here with one conclusion saying dont worry about the time wasted in first semester. Just enjoy the new year which is on the way. Based on the response I will continue with another confession because if this is boring then there is no point continuing this :p Thank you Your well wishing senior
Posted on: Fri, 26 Dec 2014 10:57:27 +0000

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