A gift should be freely-given and once given with sincere intent it should not be negotiable to be returned. Things given can never be called GIFT if it had strings attached to it. I believe its tacky. But looking at it in a bigger picture and you were asked for a gift back, hand over the stuff without second thought. Your eagerness to hand the gifts back over would undoubtedly deflate the person. Some people use them to manipulate and hold power over you. You should never allow it. Dont even deign to argue about it. Rid yourself of the stuff and let him have it. Its a cheap way to relieve yourself of a very heavy burden ... him! THINK! Feelings on etiquette about this?
Posted on: Tue, 06 May 2014 13:32:46 +0000
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