A husband said to his wife : “50,000 years before Allah created the Universe, He wrote your name next to mine….” Most people get married believing a myth that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for : companionship, intimacy, friendship, etc. The truth is marriage started as an empty box. Ʊ have to put something in before u can take anything out. There is no love in marriage. Love is in people. & people put love in marriage. There is no romance in marriage. Ʊ have to infuse it in your marriage. A couple must learn the art & form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising, keeping the box full. If u take out more than u give, the box will be empty. =-? 8 THINGS WHICH WEAKEN THE MARRIAGE: 1) Misbehaving - saying bad or hateful things, making bad jokes & insulting each other. 2) Ignoring - not replying back to the salams or giving each other the good ear to listen & share. 3) Lying - Allah forbids the believers to lie. There is no room in Islam for liars, & may Allah save us from this evil, آمين . 4) Breaking Promises - Keeping a trust is also an important characteristic of a believer. 5) Avoiding Contact - Ʊ hug the brothers at the mosque, but what about a little hug with your wife? Come on, u can do it. 6) Suspicion & Backbiting - Allαh says, O believers, avoid much suspicion. Certainly suspicion is sinful. And dont spy or back bite each other. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of your dead brother. You would hate it. Fear Allahs punishment. For sure Allah is the Acceptor of repentance, The Merciful. [Quran 49: 12] 7) Too Busy - Take time for each other. U have rights on each other. Give everyone their rights & u will be given your rights. 8) Leaving the worship - Allαh will never be pleased with someone who leaves His guidance & does not worship Him. This will cause Muslim families serious problems & even to split up, faster than anything.
Posted on: Fri, 21 Nov 2014 03:39:29 +0000
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