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A reminder from a child: Do not spoil me , I know that I should not have all that I ask . I just want to test you. Do not be afraid to be stern with me, I prefer it . This allows me to understand what they are valid. Do not use force with me, otherwise you teach me that power is all that matters . I will be more willing to be driven. Do not be inconsistent , Id be shocked and forced to make every effort to get away as often as I can. Do not make promises you may not be able to keep them. This would decrease my trust in you. Do not give in to my provocations when I say and do things just to embarrass you , because then I would try to have other similar victories . Do not be too upset when I say I hate you . I do not mean this , I do it because youre sad for what I ve done. Do not make me feel smaller than it is : rimedierei behaving as larger than they are. Do not do things for me that I can do alone. This would make me feel like a kid and I could continue to hold you in my service . Do not do that my bad habits I earn much of your attention. This would encourage me to continue with them. Do not correct me in front of people . I will pay a lot more notice if you talk quietly with me in private. Do not try to discuss my behavior in the heat of an argument . Of course, my hearing would not be very good at that time, and my collaboration even worse. Is it right to behave as they should, but you have to talk about it calmly . Do not try to preach to me , youd be surprised to see how well I know what is right and what is wrong . Do not make me feel that my mistakes are sins . I have to learn to make mistakes without having the feeling of not being honest . Do not gripe all the time . If you do I have to defend myself by pretending to be deaf . Not demand explanations for my misbehavior. Really, I do not know why I did it . Do not put too much strain on my sincerity. I am easily frightened , so much to tell lies. Do not forget that I really like to experiment . I learn from them , so I beg you to bear them . Do not protect me from consequences. I need to learn from experience. Do not take too much notice of my small ailments : I could learn to enjoy poor health if it attracted me your attention. Do not shut me up when Im honest questions . If you do, I will stop to ask and I will try my information elsewhere. Do not answer the questions silly or meaningless . I just want to keep you busy with me. Do not think you look ridiculous if you apologize to me . A sincere apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you. Never support to be perfect or infallible . This would give me an excuse to not follow you. Do not worry about the little time we spend together . Its like we spend that counts. Do not let my fears arouse your anxiety , because then shall become more fearful . Show me the courage . Do not forget that I can not grow well without much understanding and encouragement. But I need not tell you, is not it? Treat me the same way you treat your friends : so I ll be your friend ! Remember , I learn more by example than by a reproach .
Posted on: Sat, 16 Nov 2013 18:06:22 +0000

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