A temporary time-out can give a couple the opportunity to let emotions cool when an argument is getting out of hand. That type of silence can beneficial. The Bible says that there is "a time to keep quiet". (Eccl3:7) But when it is used as a means to retaliate or manipulate, the silent treatment not only prolongs conflict but also erodes the respect the couple have for each other. How can you prevent that from happening to you? The first step to ending the silent treatment is to recognize it for what it is --- a tactic that, at best, works only short-term. True, not talking may quench your thirst for retaliation or compel your spouse to give in to your wishes. But is that really how you want to treat someone whom you have vowed to love? There are better ways to resolve conflicts. The bible says that love "does not be come provoked." (1 Con 13:4,5).
Posted on: Mon, 19 Aug 2013 17:35:11 +0000
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