ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP checklist: •Embarrass you with put-downs (especially if you two are alone)Talk nicely about you in front of other people, but cut you down in private. •Control what you do, where you go, or who you talk to. -at the beginning of the relationship he makes me feel guilty when ill have me-time in just for few minutes walk at the mall • Point out your familys/friends’ flaws so that you’re uncomfortable asking them to come over because he hates them. You no longer want to invite people over due to your feelings of dread. •Insist on control over all the money. Make you ask for money. - made me feel irresponsible mother for wanting to have a work, and instill in my mind that he can provide so theres no use for me to work, my obligation is to take care of the kids •always points out how you’ve used to deal with depression or anxiety to “prove” that you’re sick in the head. That your thinking cannot possibly be as clear as his because you’ve sought help from mental health professionals or medication. •Impress the neighbors, friends, and your family with his kindness or helpfulness leaving you to doubt your own perception of him. Act much differently in public than at home. •Make all the decisions. esp financially. Tell you he considers you an equal partner but somehow ends up making the decisions anyway. -1st incident bought a celfon out of the money we earned for months of the small business, then when i questioned him, tells me i am a control freak. •Proclaims that you are a bad parent and tell u all the reasons why you couldn’t gain custody, ignoring his own faults. •Act like his abusive behavior is no big deal, your fault, or even deny doing it. -like dragging me even when i was pregnant that caused me to give birth 8mos janika. •threaten to burn all your clothes •pointed a loaded gun in my forehead •Physically assault you - Shove, slap, choke, drag you whit your hair, hit you. •makes you feel unreasonable mother if u file a case against him for his abusive bhaviors and making you feel guilty of the effect to the kids
Posted on: Sat, 27 Sep 2014 06:54:48 +0000
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