Acknowledgement of a weakness reveals a strength we never knew.we had. Couage is not measured by the result, but by the effort put forth. The seed of acceptance sprouts new possibilites and allows for roots of honesty to dig deep inside our darkest places. Places we dont want to uncover places where fear once held us captive, but we have the ability to rise against all inferiorities which interfere with our deepest desires. Dont hide in the darkness....reveal what u want to escape from and ,a healing, peaceful source so perfect, so right will grant u abilities which allow the freedom to be who u are. Love who u are! .Did some soul searching today and its amazing to me what u can hear when the silence is so loud. Self discovery is an amazing and scary experience which has the opportunity to promote personal growth and gives us a gift which is not always welcomed but extremely important. This gift is the the gift of choice. Its always exciting to discover something new about ourselves. Especially when our.new found discovery enhances how we feel about ourselves, or how we feel others will view us. Change is.welcomed when it encompasses positivity and the attraction we have towards the thought of approval from others can overpower our true feelings, what we want for ourselves, what we see but someone else may not. But what about the discoveries which are revealed that we are not.pleased with?,ashamed of? Embarrassed about?,how do we deal with the hard truths we have tried to hide away for so long? How do we embrace a feeling that we want to shun away? Do we ignore these ill feelings and pretend they dont exist? That they are.not a part of who we are?, so many times I have tried to bury what I dont want to beilve. The harder I try to replenish a negative thought with something I want to believe to be true......the more it looks at me straight in the face, following me like a dark shadow,,shackled to a nail of denail, and surrounded by a wall of defeat. Do i allow something that i have discovered to rule me?,or do i rule the discovery? Here is what I have concluded.....my perception needs an alteration. Why do things which are categorized by a warped vision make us wallow in a pool of negativity and self doubt? I used to allow this......I used to be a prisoner within myself,,only to find out that the mistakes I have made only act as a guidance.for future decisions....... A bump in the road may throw me off track,; inconvenient as it may be, the admission that maybe it wasnt the best track is a thougcombinationn alter the perception of a negative situation,,and find a silver lining....a hidden truth which is waiting to show what we dont know...to reveal the hard truths we try to so hard to hide from.others......to disassociate ourselves with the mere thought of a less than desirable situation happening. Mistakes are something to not be ashamed of. They have the ability to act as a teacher......if i choose to listen, I will come out wiser, ready to face the world with a head held high,,capable of proclaiming my lack of perfection, and my desire to change. Change cannot begin without recognition of a problem, acknowledgment of a desire to change, and definitely a key to successfully making this difficult task transpire.....leave blame out of the picture. Its so easy, and human nature, to misplace blame. I found that in situations where disapproval from another, shame of our actions, or fear of losing a reputation, blame tends to be at the forefront of all sinerious. It is so much easier to place blame on someone else, bc naturally blaming ourselves could have lasting damaging effects on ones ego, and we all no a damaged ego flooded with unessesary blame is a position no single person would chose.to be in. How about approaching this differently.....with attitude of self discipline, and ownership of our misfortunes. Admission can be a link to providing love and tolerance towards othersand accepting mistakes for what they are. Realizing that a mistake will take on the connotation which itnis first presented. Mistakes do not have to be thought of as a downfall. It only becomes a downfall if someone allows this,; being assertive about our wrongdoing and offering assistance in correcting a mistake will be a productive way of owning up to something u may not be pleased about, but the effect of accepting your mistake shows that u are.not as selfish as the none who is quick to point the finger any direction but their own. I am discovering the beauty which can result from mkaing mistakes. I refuse to allow mistakes I have made to detour me from an existence of happiness.and peace. They will not rob me of the my success, my future plans, or oppurtunities which may present themselves. Do not be intimidated by something which is not perfect. I dont believe in perfection......once this degree is met, all further hopes of exceeding are non existant, and the desire to be all u can be quickly vanishes and all that remains is poor excuses which are thought to be valid acexistentts serenity which encompasses acceptance holds a key to an open heart, an open mind. I remain teachable, encorporating a combination of curiosity to make corrections where they are do, and determination to put forth all necessary efforts to change. Thank u for the gift of change......dont return it, own it, embrace it. Use change as weapon against self doubt or negativity. Today I dont allow the mistakes I make break me.....they build me.....and sometime they will Be rebuit. Dont underestimate your true.potential. achievements are built on success. they often chance and thrive on the vision u have, the goals u make and the limits are endless.. waiting to happen. It is never ending, and ...dont wait for success to find u......go out and attack it with a humbled confidence which revwals who u are, and be proud the that person. Today i like who i see in the mirror, and the rflection of what i see has eyes of.admiration. a strong desire me be aware of changes which need made can result in possibilites where your grip exceeds your reach, limits u set for yoursel are now fading out of a distant memory, and into the rwality that u aremworth everything u have to give. t.....Put focus on the good, but never forget about the bad. Worrying about something which holds no value,, provides a widow of opportunity to dwell on our past, engulf our thoughts in negativity, and allows for a heightened fear which is only feeding an ego which will enhance ill feelings and harbor false perceptions of false truths. Fear and mistakes? I learned that they will be revealed to me when I think is the most inconvenient times.....but Ive discovered they are never late, always on time, and always mine.my feelings belong to only me, and your feelings are valid, they are never to be disregarded as they are never wrong. I dont ignore my fears today. I embrace them and take awy something I have learned.... something productive, something which will ultimately make me a stronger person. To deny my fears is to deny a part of who I am. Today im proud of the peraon i am.....the person i have embraced.......the person who can say i made a mistake......but it didnt break me. It built me. In have a new sense of security that allows room for error, and passes judegement on no single person. We all have emotions we cannot explain, we all have feelings we dont undetand......we all make mistakes, and we are all better individuals for the choices we make, or the choices we chose not to make. I cannot base my perception on false realities of what others want. In order to make others happy, I have to be happy myself, which I can say with an open heart and an honest tongue.....I happy today, Im grateful for the mistakes I make, and look forward to the self discoveries which encompass life as life goes on!
Posted on: Sun, 20 Jul 2014 08:28:30 +0000
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