After waiting 1 1/2 years to get an appt w the VA to get my husbands claim started, we finally got a call to go in and be evaluated by a nurse practitioner. Shortly after arriving she comes out to waiting area to get my husband and I. We get to her office and she starts off by telling him that it doesnt matter what paperwork is in the system because she doesnt want to go in and review it. So my husband sat there and talked to the moniter for about 45 minutes giving her the information that hes already sent the about 4-5 times because before this appt they claimed to have not recd it. She was very cold to him and didnt care what he told her because she was like a robot typing way. About 15-20 mins into the conversation she looks up and him and says your wife is smiling now, but what happens in about 10 years when she doesnt want you anymore because no one else will want you this way neither? I was outraged needless to say but here we go -- what do u say when the lady behind the desk is the one who decides his fate at the VA? You sit there practically in tears sucking it up because you know if u say anything she will just have an attitude for the rest of the visit. Ugh. This is rude and unacceptable behavior coming from VA personnel when you have a veteran that has served beside others to give you that job and freedoms you have. Its unacceptable when hes human also and has feelings of depression because he cant do the things he wants to do on a daily basis because the pain has taken over his daily life. He is the most amazing husband and I have been blessed to be honored as his wife and Miss VA lady - no one else needs to love him because I have enough love for him to last him a life time and Im not sharing anyways! I love him to the moon and back and that will NEVER change. Love is unconditional and because hes handicapped doesnt change the person he is or the heart and love he has for me. I will spend my life loving him and doing what I can to help him through this pain. The people who have enough ignorance to tell people that they have no value because of their handicap or situation, have obviously never experienced pain or loss and need lots of prayer because they have NO idea what it is to live that way and need to have compassion and not say why they think. Keep my husband in your prayers please and I thank each and every current and retired member of the United States armed forces for their service! 🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸
Posted on: Fri, 11 Jul 2014 11:29:28 +0000
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