Anon has asked: I need some advise and before anyone says anything nasty please keep in mind Im already hurting- a lot. Yesterday my husband and I found out we have been approved for our home loan (yay) so the biggest debt of our lives, I also had a doctors appt. because our baby was due for her 1yr needles. I also got blood taken because I just thought my iron levels were off. Well the doctor gave me a pregnancy test and I laughed, not only have I still not got a period because my baby decided 3 weeks ago that she doesnt want titty anymore, but with al the stresses involved in buying a home I certainly didnt think I was pregnant. So my thing is, Im pregnant and it was so unplanned. Im about to be in serious debt and we require both our incomes. My call is do I think more about my family who is here right now and to look after them to the best of my ability would be to not have a baby. But the thought of that kills me. My husband and I have a one year old striving baby. And plan for more but not for a while. I wish I had someway of knowing it could work out. But the simple fact is id have to leave my job with no paid maternity. And then we would struggle to keep our home, and keep our family from falling apart. I just want some kind ideas, thoughts, stories If youve been through the same. x
Posted on: Thu, 13 Nov 2014 00:36:25 +0000
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