Anonymous shares, - After being in a relationship with a lot of Hmong guys and then actually being in a 2 year commitment with one, I stopped dating Hmong guys. I decided to date out of race because it wasnt working out too well with that type and I think its actually works out better now. Just recently I started dating this guy which he isnt Hmong as you can kinda get the hint there. Hes European and very gentlemen-like, I love that about him. I find it crazy how he treats me like a dang ol queen haha. But seriously, hes incredible. But my parents are still very traditional and they dont really like it, althought we have problems within our family that makes me dont wanna let them meet him. However, alt of Hmong seniors have been telling me that I shouldnt talk out of race because it doesnt end well or most of the time they regret it and stuff. Oftentimes they would tell me that I should marry a Hmong guy because he would love me until I die. But in my eyes, I dont want to be a Hmong guys slave. I dont want to live with someone for the rest of my lifes who wont love me too who knows when? My spouse all are married to Hmong significant others and it hasnt worked out too well, comparing it to those biracial marriages that actually most of them last longer than them. I love that my boyfriend is very well taught by himself of how to be a man. Showing respect and appreciating my presences. Honestly, my family dont understand his worth to me. Hes the first to open doors for me, the first to cook for me, the first to buy me roses, the first to make sure Im warm, he first to ask if I ate, the first to actually really love me. He supports me on my decisions and he doesnt pick on my flaws. He motivates me to become a better person not just for him but also for myself. He hugs me tightly after I tell him a heart wounding story, to kissing all the scars I had on my arms from my past, to letting me burry my face in his arms to when I cry. Hes not just some boy, hes the one I see a future with. I dont know I my parents would ever accept it but its not up to them to decide my future. They could either join in my happiness or step aside and watch. I dont care if hes not Hmong, he makes me happy. Emotionally, physically, and mentally. I dont wanna live my life lowering my standards for just one guy who cant get on his own feet, I dont wanna serve someone food everyday or hour of my life. - So what are your thoughts of biracial relationships or marriages?
Posted on: Mon, 17 Nov 2014 05:13:41 +0000
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