Are you living the life you have always wanted for yourself? Or are you simply living a life based on what others expect of you? Many people today live their life around the expectations of others. Among my friends, many of them often make decisions based on what their partners or what other people want.... rather than because of what they want or believe. Many friends often complain about being trapped in careers they dislike because they chose careers which were deemed acceptable by their peers and family, rather than pursuing career paths that interested them. I was raised in an oppressive manner by my parents and by my education system. While I have never faulted anyone for such an upbringing because I believe my parents and teachers came from a place of good intention, I did grow up feeling repressed. I would do things to conform to what others wanted for me, rather than doing things I wanted to do, and this made me very unhappy most of the time. Being raised this way made me realize the importance of living a life true to myself. When I was in my early 20s i got married to Roucheon iloyi .....People thought i had lost my mind. I began to come into my own, steadily making decisions and acting in a way that was truer to who I was as an individual. When I realized I was no longer in love with my corporate career, I quit and moved on to pursue my true passion to help others grow and my music. When I felt it was time to do what I love to do, I readily started my business FEROmedia (which I continue to run today)...... I realised I had friendships which were no longer compatible with the person I had become....... I immediately let them go rather than keep up a pretense........Hope i helped.....
Posted on: Wed, 12 Jun 2013 22:24:42 +0000