Avoid even the appearance of wrongdoing. If you meet with someone who tries to come on to you and maybe even who is attractive to you, dont panic. Simply show no interest and say it clearly to that person. Explain that youre very happy in your marriage and have no intention of straying. Say exactly those words. Then excuse yourself and go someplace where there are other people around. Dont allow yourself to be cornered by that person again. Dont get yourself into any situation where even a whiff of lust is near. Its natural to find yourself attracted to others, even people other than your spouse. But dont allow yourself to be alone with anyone like this, and dont go out of your way to see him or her. Dont daydream or email, dont entertain the notion of being with someone else - unless its someone like Katy Perry or Ryan Reynolds. Someone unattainable is a silly crush (still, you shouldnt obsess over a crush like this to the detriment of your marriage). Someone at work, or at a party (i.e., in the same room with you) is a threat to your happy marriage. Have an escape plan. For example, consider that if a certain person who attracts you comes near you, that youll head for the bathroom and then perhaps another group of people - or even head home.[4
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