BREAKUP TIPS: When theres a breakup, please dont go over to your exes house, without calling. I dont care if theres children involved. Unannounce visits are a No No. U cant go over anybodys home without their permission. U could get your feelings hurt. Remember the relationship is over, dont try to control or dictate to your ex bout their new life without u. Its over. If u see them with a new boyfriend or girlfriend, get your feelings in check. Getting replaced is part of life. Stop figuring out why. We just been replaced thats all. Time to move on. Dont be spying on them with friends or neighbors. Dont go drive by their neighborhood to spy. Dont go to their job, either. This is called stalking. If youre too vulnerable, stay away. If youre too vulnerable, avoid places they hang at. This can cause problems. Wait until youd overcome them. Watch what u say bout your ex to friends and families. No hating. Always take the high road. Remember if u speak ill of them, they can do the same. Then u both look childish. Finally stop using children as a tool to spy or get back at your ex. Allow them to visit and spend time. Fellas, just cause youre mad with your ex, dont punish the children, by not visiting. Ladies, allow the men to see their children. Dont get personal when it comes to the children. Parents stop using the children to spy on the other parents. Keep the children out your affairs. Dont speak ill of your ex in front of them. Always take the high road.
Posted on: Sun, 21 Sep 2014 15:51:55 +0000