Because of Tommy... Memorial Day has added meaning... I know the joy of my first born (Arlene) and the death of my youngest son on this same day... May 26th... I know that time heals the open wound, but the scar of a deeper pain and loss remain... I know never a day will pass, when I dont think of all the ways a boy who lived only 2 short years impacted my life and the lives of so many... Because of Tommy... I have laughed and cried... Understood and felt confused... Recognized and felt lost.... But never feel alone. Because of Tommy... I am conscious of the miracle and gift of life and I strive to live and treasure my health. Because of Tommy... I am more acutely aware of all those who have lost others - those we honor and remember on this day. Because of Tommy... I know seemingly bad things happen to good people and good things can come from these same badthings. Because of Tommy... I recognize that the more changes I experience, the less Id want to change any of these experiences. Because of Tommy... I felt called to take my Dad to a place he had always wanted to visit - Notre Dame. Because of that visit, Alice and I felt a need to share Notre Dame with Tommys siblings.... All under the age of 12... Yet each deciding on that trip to make it a goal to go there for college. Because of Tommy... Arlene chose to attend Saint Marys at Notre Dame... Marie graduated from Notre Dame with 2 degrees in 3 years... Danny will graduate with a Notre Dame degree next May. Because of Tommy.... We shared Notre Dame and Saint Marys College with Emily James... shell earn a nursing degree from SMC. Because of Tommy... His siblings decided to reach for their dreams.... And to carry a part of him with them, wherever they go. Because of Tommy... Arlene met a young man at Notre Dame that became her husband. Because of Tommy... Arlene and Bryan chose to name their son Tommy... Because of Tommy... I more fully recognize the power and significance of a moment... Of how quickly life can change, but how constant love remains. Because of a little guy that would never walk, sit, or stand... Living his whole life in the loving arms of others.... I can see that if we accept support, we can earn our wings and learn to fly. Because of Tommy... who never spoke a single word... I have come to learn that sometimes, just being present speaks volumes... That a smile can be priceless... And that a hug and kiss convey more than words could ever say. Because of Tommy... I more readily understand the grief and burdens so many carry with them daily. Because of Tommy... I try to look beyond myself and see that true heroes are a result of selfless sacrifice. Because of Tommy... I know the importance of memorializing those who have gone before us. Because of Tommy... I try harder to focus on the ONE who made the ultimate sacrifice... Giving HIS life so that I may have life through Him.
Posted on: Mon, 26 May 2014 04:37:53 +0000
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