Boundaries and risk management are very important parts of living a healthy and positive life. Even professionals like therapists, psychologists and social workers limit their exposure to their clients and draw boundaries. What makes you think you can handle unlimited exposure to toxic people and survive? You can still be a charitable person who helps and cares about people, without helping those very people destroy your life. Learn how to draw a line and learn how to enforce it. Get selfish and take care of you. Cleanliness and order is good Feng Shui which applies to people even more than to the things in your life. You must clear out what you dont want, to make room for what you do want to arrive. The way to send a clear message that you are ready for better people in your life is the kick the rascals to the curb. We strive our whole lives to love people unconditionally, but sometimes we need to get rid of people unconditionally. The intimate space of your personal life should be reserved for amazing, beautiful, radiant souls — good, wholesome and loving people. Your truest family is your chosen family, people with whom you most identify. Make a clear decision on the type of people you want in your life and if they dont make the cut, then create some distance. It doesnt matter if it is a close relative, parent or child-hood friend; no matter the history — when people are toxic, disruptive and dysfunctional with no reasonable signs of recovery, then they need to go. Sometimes, to escape a bad relationship and reclaim our lives, we have to break a piece of our heart off, like a wolf chews its leg off to escape a steel trap. Love toxic people from a distance. — Bryant McGill For more clarity you can read in context here: bryantmcgill/20140317045254.html (This passage is from Simple Reminders the book. We appreciate you visiting and taking the time to read.) The book: SimpleReminders.info Subscribe: BryantMcGill.net twitter/BryantMcGill google/+BryantMcGill The Show: SimpleReminders.tv Call-in or Text: (310) 486-9494 Lets connect on Linkedin. Networkers and entrepreneurs welcome! linkedin/in/bryantmcgill/
Posted on: Sun, 04 Jan 2015 20:39:29 +0000