By Jennifer Kass There is an idea that I was holding onto until a couple years ago that was the biggest block to my happiness and freedom–and I wasn’t even aware of it all those years until things became very painful. It was the limiting belief that I needed to be saved. It was an unconscious thought and I was unaware that I was believing in it for so long and that it was the root of what was creating blocks and disappointments in so many areas of my life. Powerful, successful, independent women tell me all the time that this idea of needing to be saved is in the background of their mind and something they haven’t fully shaken off. The idea that we need to be saved runs deep throughout our collective psyche and in our relationships, we play out roles of princess, rescuer, hero, savior, martyr, all to the detriment of our own personal growth. This idea manifested in painful patterns of codependency in my romantic relationships and also blocked my capacity to create financial freedom–it kept me in the space of a victim, letting someone else throw the dice rather than acknowledging that I am the creator of my life, the heroine of my own story. Identifying limiting patterns in our lives and our relationships is the first step to breaking free. From here you can unravel the beliefs and fears that run beneath the patterns or behaviors. Our limiting fear-based thoughts are the root of any imbalance in our lives, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. As we release these thoughts, we shift the energy and the universe cracks open to us, flowing its abundance, and guiding us to what we need for our next levels of freedom, peace and happiness. This guidance works through our intuition, our inner guide and the quiet voice and whispers within leading us to our right actions–maybe it’s walking away from a relationship or a job, maybe it’s opening a book or reading something that is the catalyst for a transformation. Discover the truth leaving no stone unturned. You are so powerful that one small unconscious idea sitting within can create a massive challenge or block on the outside–we are never a victim of what’s happening, but actually the creator and this is not to place judgment on ourselves but to be willing to move from a space of denial or avoidance and into higher levels of awareness. This allows us to clear the pattern. On the other side of our fears and limiting patterns is our true, authentic self. As we process and release these old ideas we clear the blocks to who we really are and there is no greater reward or success than living in our truth, our fullness and our freedom. Self-love is courageously looking at what’s holding us back and having the willingness to move through it. When we come into this new space of love and leave behind our fears, we experience real, deep connections in our relationships, better health, prosperity, creativity and an aliveness that was otherwise blocked. How are you experiencing blocks in your life? What are you ready to let go of? I’ll leave you with this last thought: Save yourself. Be your own knight in shining armor and create your own life. Not because the man of your dreams doesn’t exist. But because he can only exist if you save yourself first. thedailylove/on-waiting-to-be-saved/
Posted on: Tue, 24 Jun 2014 19:24:07 +0000
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