DAILY COLUMN ---------------------- Sometimes while doing seva In Satsangs or anywhere We fall in conflict ! Or you can say we are misunderstood ,and we fall in ARGUEMENT ! In interactions, when we get hurt, we are unable to see the perspective of the other, and hence are unable to understand them. So to understand others we need to remain stable. With the same group of people we are doing seva today may not like our way of doing the job . People who accept us today and make us feel good, may not be able to do it tomorrow, and then we feel low with the same people. It is important to take charge of how we feel, instead of being dependent on others. To be INDEPENDENT means to be dependent only on the one inside. Let us be ourselves and not keep changing our behaviour according to the way others behave with us. You should do your seva sincerely and with a SMILE SABB THEEK HO JAAYEGA Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end. When you can no longer think of a reason to continue, you must think of a reason to start over. There’s a big difference between giving up and starting over in the right direction. And there are three little words that can release you from your past regrets and guide you forward to a positive new beginning. These words are: “From now on”. When there is a task to be done we usually want to do it ALL ALONE. We look for someone who can help us, but we are not really able to create an environment of mutual cooperation. So we find ourselves doing the task all by ourselves and hence find ourselves alone. So we find that even a task which is not so difficult takes a lot of energy and thoughts. We might also end up having negative thoughts when we dont experience the help that we should from others. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO THINK TWICE THAT :- When we are able to recognize and use each and everyones specialties for the success of a task, we are able to inspire cooperation in others. This will enable them too to learn the beauty of cooperation. Then there is automatically an environment of learning, where each and everyone make efforts to learn from what the other person has. There is then no negativity due to unfulfilled expectations, but there is absorption of positivity, making us richer. So Make every thought, word and deed such that the impact gives someone courage and zeal and enthusiasm. Do not be selfish to do seva yourself , JOIN IN ! AKELE HUM MANZIL SAE BAHUT DURR HO JAAYENGAE Learn to share your seva also Let the other person also rejoice in the pool of seva . JAI GURUJI
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