DAILY COLUMN -------------------- Getting rid of people and things is not the answer; but dealing with them with skill is the answer. When we get married we become a part of a new family We now develop new relations but the most important person in our life is now mother in law You are really blessed if you have a mother in law. Don’t argue with your mother-in-law. Win her with love If you will try to understand this you will become very easy in your life . She is not your enemy . She can be your best friend ,if you try . Put yourself in her shoes . How difficult it is to give your responsibites on to such person who is absolutely inexperienced ? You MIL has raised a family with all efforts and love She will only hand over if she sees the best in you . It requires patience and only patience . Whatever is, that grows. If you sow a seed, that seed will grow. If the seed itself is lack, then lack is what grows. Today you feel a lack, and tomorrow you will feel some other lack, and then in a year, even if all these things are provided, still you will feel some lack. Observe carefully and see what you have been given. Then you become grateful. Take every responsibility with love ,hold it and save it with dignity If you lack in something your MIL will help you ,only if you love her and respect her . Surely , if you take her as your friend You have to love her first from heart . One thing is sure if you take this way , if you love your husband how can you hate his mom . Hating your husbands family is not an answer to lead a peaceful life . You will make your life miserable . You need to have a wide vision . A vision like a small child who enters a school for the first time and whom you look for when you enter your new class, A TEACHER ! Some children cry and some sit With suspicious mind WHERE I AM ? Only at this time your teacher holds you . So just dont crib or cry Get up and accept where you are with grace . Behave wisely and please dont cry . You are strong to accept responsibilities . This is your own family now . There is nothing in this world which is worth your tears. If you want to shed tears, it should be sweet tears of gratitude, of amazement, of love. Crying for something which is worthless is nothing. Your life is not made for that. I have been married for last 25 years and what I am is because of my family in which I got married to I accepted everything boldly and the key of my life has been This is my house ! My family ! My life ! It is up to me how to make best of it ! Ofcourse ,I will not let anything go down nor I will give up . Nor me ,nor my family They are the BEST ! Consider yourself precious and A precious stone needs a gold or silver setting around it – to hold it. Wisdom and Knowledge are the settings that will hold your heart . Love u all ! A big hug to all sweet daughter in laws JAI Guruji
Posted on: Wed, 23 Apr 2014 05:40:31 +0000
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