DEAR LADIES... ...where do you see yourself in 5yrs? Where do you see your future going? Whether you see yourself married or single with a career, what you do now will determine how comfortable youll be. A woman must have goals, she must see herself more than a wife, you are a soul that came to earth for a reason, your life also has a purpose.. A woman must be independent, you must learn to stand on your own two feet, not for oppression or for competition with a man, but for survival.... A woman that have no dreams will become, her friends errand girl, you will be that one friend amongst them that everyone calls whenever they need a someone to send back and forth, while they are at work or in there business place....because hey know you are always available, you have no life, no future, always available... A married woman that totally depends on her hubby for everything is building resentments, a man will respect you when you have something you can bring to the table.....even if he is well to do, his respect for you will multiply, NO because he want your money, but because you are representing him well in public...... In this day and age, no man wants a liability for a wife, they want an independent woman, they want your support, they want a mate hat they can borrow her mind in making Decisions..... You are inviting abuse, resentment if you wait on a man for your well being, if hes feeding, clothing and doing it all.....eventually he will want to control you, matter of fact he owns you, you are his property, because if he says NO....NO is NO, you will have no opinion, if you disagree, you will not get what you want from him.....if he says sit you must sit or no money, no food, no clothing.....for your self respect, have your own, for your dignity, have your own....you will have a say in your own home.... Eventually you will star to resent him, more importantly, you will start to resent and hate yourself....you will lose respect of people.... So once again where do you see yourself in 5yrs? start to look at what you can do today to better your tomorrow....do you need to go back to school, its never too late, what do you need to do to make that happen? do you prefer to learn a trade? How will you make it happen? Your future and the future of your children depends on it...... your hubby may decide to leave or GOD forbids he dies, where would you be? Wake up, think on this....yes you are a woman, but your purpose here is not to be a bystander.....you are also capable of leading........ Theres nothing wrong if you lend or even giving your hubby money to start a business.... NOTHING! Those days of them saying female children are worthless are over, i have a daughter and am working real hard to give her the best of education money can afford, am gonna make sure she stay independent off any mans pocket.. Am gonna bring up a daughter that wont depend on her hubby for livinghood, but will work hand in hand with her hubby to keeep the family running. FYI - lay a hand on my daughter and i will get you killed, for i have NEVER laid a finger on a woman, and never will.. #smiles ¤ #korede_lilraj
Posted on: Sun, 09 Nov 2014 20:26:32 +0000
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