DISCLAIMER: Seriously I dont really care what you will think of me. This is free advice to those that think they need this but if you dont just PASS and PROCEED. This advice again goes to the ladies and relationships. This advice is based on the question I asked some time back to say who suffers more between a guy and a lady if they end up getting into a relationship with a wrong person (a person that drains them instead of energizing them or a person that afflict them instead of bringing joy and happiness upon their lives. Here is my answer: The lady suffers more than the guy and this is why. We guys were created in a way that we endure hardship, the more we are tortured the more we grow stronger and stronger, we are survivors naturally whilst to you ladies when you face unconducive environment such as torture you break apart, and nothing works for you. And the second thing is that, much as you might have authority over a guy before relationship telling him what to do and make him follow you around, the truth of the matter is that once you say YES to that guy authority automatically shifts without discussion and you subject yourself under that guy and what he does determines a lot on how far you might go in life. Because you are under his authority, whatever environment he will create for you is what will determine how far you will go in life and your productivity and mind you its biblical (you are like a tree planted under his environment and whatever environment he brings to you, you have no choice but to bear fruits in accordance to the environment that has been provided to you. And this is also why mostly I point fingers at men when things in their girlfriends life are not going alright). Your husband has the power to nullify your oath to God (this is biblical) so watch out. If a guys comes to you, I dont mean that you say yes to any guy that comes not even me because I have said this. Mind you some of us guys coming to you its not like we are desperate, hey, let me tell you this, I for one, I am good even God knows this and He tells and reminds me of this truth every now and again, and if I come to you whether you say yes or no take it as a privilege that I noticed the potential in you. Some of us are so crazy, we are evaluating daily, looking for fresh revelation from God always. So according to the level of my understanding I might think you are the one today and tomorrow a new revelation comes in and you are null and void so if you didnt seized your opportunity, chances are high that we wouldnt come back and the surprising part is that when we meet we can genuinely chat and laugh with you without holding any grudges thanking God you never said yes. I for one I will stop seeking new revelations on this when the woman says yes to me. Because. Seeking a new revelation is a choice that one makes. I am a man, I stand and commit myself to the choices and decisions I make in my life and so are other good men out there. So dont miss your opportunity when it presents itself.
Posted on: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:50:26 +0000
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