****DONT FIGHT FOR IT!**** As much as it is ideally assumed that the destination of every ideal relationship is marriage,there is no point killing oneself over it. It is a leaf that a goat has eating passion for that will suddenly lead it to its untimely death. It is only those with desperate mind for marriage that will fall into the trap of being deceived by guys with the sermon ofI will marry you.. If you didnt show any signal of desperation, he cant use that as a deceptive tool. There is no point being desperate over it. Stepping out of a relationship(without a fight) that was built on hope and committment over the years because he is not yet ready(due to lack of finance) to take you to the alter is one of the grievous mistakes any lady can ever make.(I am not refering to relationship that is built on personal gains without future or any committment from the guy). *Is he committed to you and the relationship? *Does he have future ambition? *Is he focused and determined in life? *Does he respect you and your feelings? *Is he a man of his word? If most of the questions asked above(if not all)have a YES answer, stepping out and jumping on someone whom you barely know will be a decision that is likely to end in tears than joy. You sure will find someone that will marry you after stepping out but the question to if you are making the right decision is full of many uncertainties. The only things you need to do to hook a #deserving man should be; *Good and generally accepted characters. *Understanding. *Respect. *Giving him a shoulder to lean on always. *Supporting him mentally,emotionally and otherwise. *Decency in all areas. *Naturality. *Being less materialistic and being more appreciative etc. #Desperation is not included in the list. Guys may be promiscuous in nature but they sure know a wife material when they meet one. If you worth it, he will do everything humanly possible to keep and take you to the alter without being reminded. #Just be real and remain yourself, you wont need to show desperation before you will be noticed and regarded. #Happy boxing day. I got some gloves here. Do you care for some punches? Lol!
Posted on: Thu, 25 Dec 2014 23:31:38 +0000
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