Dear Sir/Madam. My name is Jamie Robert Eirlwyn Searl, I am 22 years old. I would like to put a story to you. In Februray 2013 I found out that my ex Stevie Iris Wilson and myself were expecting a child whilst working at Butlins Holiday Park. Everything was going well. We even moved to Torquay to be together to raise our child. We were both looking for work, as she was still able to work and i had found work in the local Mcdonalds, and also assisting football coaching. She started work in Debenhams, doing two shifts a week. Rather rapidly things started to go down hill, she told me that she was no longer in love with me, and that i had to move out. Making myself homeless as my family live in Coventry. I then stayed in Torquay for a while before eventually going back to Butlins. I went to the scan, and listened to the heart beat of our baby. However after that she told me i was no longer allowed to any more scans and could not be with her at the hospital when our child was to be born. However, Stevie had said she would keep in contact with me about the baby, about the scans, if there was anything the baby needed she would contact me, so i could happily provide for herself and the baby. I found out through friends who had seen on the social networking site Facebook when the baby kicked for the first time. I was not told directly from Stevie. For a while Stevie was keeping in contact every week, she then changed it to speaking to me every two weeks. Then finally saying she would contact me if i needed to be contacted and to not get in contact with herself or any of her family as i would be contacted when need be. I then did not hear off Stevie or either of her parents, who had both previously remained in contact with me. I kept trying to contact Stevie via her telephone number and both her parents, although it was all ignored. I tried every day to establish some sort of contact and nothing was working. I had arranged to leave my job in Butlins and move back to Coventry as during November time i had reason to believe that Stevie and her parents were living in High Wycombe, and it was more convenient for me to be living back home as getting to see our baby was my main concern. On the 5th of November I left Butlins moving back to Coventry, i received a text message from Stevie herself, saying that our baby had been born, explained how she was born, how they were both doing, however i was not told our babys name, or weight, or sent a picture, and i was told that Stevie would contact me again when she was feeling up to it and out of hospital. I had expected to hear from her after a few days, I wanted to respect her wishes and let her rest and take care of our baby before arranging to meet our baby for the first time. I have since then not heard a single thing from herself or any family members, I have tried contacting many different numbers, from parents, to siblings, to cousins, and many more. I have moved to Polruan in Cornwall, which is around an hours drive from Torquay, as i had reason to believe that herself and family were living in Torquay, so again I have moved closer, as i would do anything to see my Daughter. I have not only been ignored, but have been blocked by every member of her family on every social networking site, every time i make a new account it is blocked. I am now reaching out to yourselves to print this story and to make it known that I am still here, I am still trying, and i will not give up, and I am taking this to the courts and also so that other fathers like myself, dont have to endure the pain and heartache i feel every day, it has caused such an emotional strain on my life, i have been very ill for 6-7 months. I found picutres of my baby after hours of searching around one night, I then put these pictures on my Facebook out of happiness of seeing my little girl. Later that day they had been reported and removed from my facebook, which then made my illness worse, i was having extreme chest pains, and was ill for 3 days after that from a extreme amount of stress which left me bed ridden and i was escorted out of work due to almost fainting. No father willing to see his child and drop everything for their child should ever have to feel the pain i feel daily and the heartache it causes, all i want to do is see my little girl, and know she is healthy and safe. Thank you for taking the time to read this. Kind Regards Jamie Searl. Please share and like my page A Fathers Right. I FOUND THIS POST IN ANOTHER POST AND THOUGHT I NEED TO SHARE THIS. THERE ARE LOTS OF US DADS OUT THERE IN A SIMILAR SITUATION. THERE IS TOO MUCH POWER GIVEN TO THE MOTHER AND NOT ENOUGH RIGHTS TO THE FATHER. THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE!!!!! THEY DO NOT KNOW THE DAMAGE THEY CAUSE AND THEY GET STATE HELP LEGAL AID TO DO IT AND TO BLACKEN THE FATHERS NAME. AND IF THE FATHER WANTS TO FIGHT BACK HES MADE TO PAY MONEY HE DOESNT HAVE BUT HEY IF HE PACKS IN HIS JOB AND SITS ON HIS ASS LIKE SOME HE WILL QUALIFY FOR LEGAL AID..........THE LAW IS WRONG!!!!!!
Posted on: Tue, 25 Nov 2014 07:52:26 +0000
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