Dear Zane, Nobody is in support of me having this baby, my third. My children will be six, and five years apart. Everyone is mad because I really have shitty taste in men and even though Im struggling I do okay. Im really hurt that everyone is outcasting me even though nobody pays my bills, buys for my children, or even watches them. They dont even call to ask how they are. I dont ask anyone for anything. So would I be wrong to not have a baby shower? Would I be wrong to completely cut everyone out of our lives? I mean whats the point of them being there If they only want to criticize? Im okay with constructive criticism. I know I havent always made the best decisions, especially a few years back. But I love my babies. I was told my actions, i.e. getting pregnant, shows different. I lost my job because Im high risk because of my graves disease. Idk. I feel alone might as well make it a reality, right? MY RESPONSE: I would not automatically cut everyone out of your lives, but I would do it on a case-by-case basis. Some people are way too judgmental and many are bitter. I have to release people from my immediate area all the time. It happens. Concentrate on having a healthy child and you are right-no one is contributing to your household so they need to mind their own business. You have made the decision to have the child and they can either be supportive of it, or throw shade. As for the baby shower, if you are already stressing over it, I would not have it. You have people who love you unconditionally, your kids. A lot of people will never have that. Good luck.
Posted on: Tue, 10 Jun 2014 15:40:02 +0000
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