Don’t allow your insecurities to ruin your happiness. LIVE by Faith… instead of by fear. Because insecurity spoils relationships… since What you think…, you become. It is an old saying, but it is one of the things I have found to be true. And such is the case with a person who is insecure. [FOR MATURE READERS] Are you afraid to commit? Are you afraid of letting go? Are you comfortable with who you are? All of these are key questions you should know about yourself. I ask because, if the “Beast” called INSECURITY lives within you, it can cause you to look at life ‘Cross-eyed’, and really miss the beauty of life and happiness. Insecurity drives people to become too clingy or needy and nervous, and it can create major problems in a relationship. Before long, you will start seeing problems where none exist. Then, when you start to become anxious about everything, you will begin to look for signs of things going wrong. And, of course, you usually find what youre looking for, even if it isnt really there at all. Actually, it can cause you to think: • Will they reject me? • Have I done something to upset them? • This is just too good to last! • Do they look fed up? • Why did they say that? • Whos this other person theyve mentioned? • Should I feel threatened? • Are they less attentive? • Why did they pause after I suggested we meet up? But that type thinking… is not fair to the other person. Instead of thinking, This relationship must be exactly as I think it should be, or else… Give your relationship room to breathe. In the end, YOU, the person you’re in the relationship with… and the relationship itself, will be better for it. #AuthenticLeadership Please visit my blog PatWilliamsonInc and read today’s post: “Part 1 – How To Overcome Insecurity: In Relationships”
Posted on: Wed, 23 Apr 2014 09:30:28 +0000
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