Every now and then, a challenger is sent into our lives. Its usually when you least expect it, for if youve learned self-respect & self-restraint you will enforce those boundaries instantly without thinking. However, if youre still struggling with these issues it can feel like a rather cruel blow from the universe. Confrontation is not nice. Ive only met a handful of individuals on my travels who actively seek it out, usually they have been coming from victim hood & are the perpetual wounded soul. (Its always someone elses fault!) The recent Blood moon has brought aggression out, even in the most gentle souls. Buried frustrations boil over to scald their nearest & dearest. Ive had bewildered clients sit in front of me lately, dazed & confused at sudden break ups , family feuds, conflict at work etc The one statement they have in common is: It came out of nowhere! The answer is it came from a very deep place. The most simple innocent conversation implodes into a accusation slung battleground, where each word you utter becomes twisted & contorted. Have faith. This energy is clearing & most of you should be the other side of it by now! If youre still in the middle of your own cold-war, remember not to sacrifice your self-respect , simply for a quiet life. We are all light & shadow, its ok to get angry & express it. Release it from your body, talk to a friend, go for a walk to clear your head, get stuck into a physical activity and vent your anger on some stubborn weeds or pummel some pillows. You may need to confront the source of your anger. The best time to do this is when youre feeling grounded. Remember words can do damage & you can never take them back. The clearer your head is, the more focused your point will be. Do not be side tracked or detracted from your original gripe into a side street of other unrelated issues. Be clear. Stay calm. As quickly as this wave of aggression starts it will end. So if you find yourself on the receiving end of it, back away and steer clear from the individual concerned. A wounded animal is a dangerous thing and no type of reasoning will work. Honor your personal space & boundaries. Remember to breathe, releasing the negative energy this kind of altercation can store in your body. Reach for your favorite song, movie , friend that makes you smile. You have the power. It is your choice to suffer and allow anothers toxic energy ruin your day. Im grateful for good friends, loud music and walks by the river. Ive been doing a lot of that lately......! ©Fiona Faery
Posted on: Mon, 21 Apr 2014 14:24:50 +0000