FACE OFF Who will agree in this sweet msg.of Jat ... Lets talked about it...this simple agreement will Learn a lesson to All Ladies... Mahal Jat: JAT will be coming to you, I am asking myself, ask yourself too: Are those people around you committed to your happiness and success... or your mediocrity ... or secretly or subconsciously sabootaging you? Fill your life with the LOYAL people who BELIEVE, LOVE and SUPPORT you ... not who doubt you and break you down. This TRANSPARENT ACTION PLAN is in two parts. The first part sets the preamble, the second part is about you and me. This plan itself is transparent and public, I shared for others to be benefited. The second part, the discussion between you and me, will be accorded privacy and confidentiality, no dirty laundry being washed in public, no cheap dramas on my part. I hope you too will demonstrate the same level of maturity and superior behavior. _______________________________________________ A. TYPES OF FRIENDSHIPS Trust all, people are basically good, but be pragmatic and periodically re-assess. A1. High Potential Acquaintances becoming closer friends Thats where your future happiness and success is going to come from. Pay them more value and invest more in the relationship. A2. Core set of close friends These are tried and tested LOYAL treasure who LOVE, BELIEVE & SUPPORT you. If some of the close friends are simply drifting away for no reason, then see if it is worth reinvesting the efforts or maintain the occasional gracefully loving ties of gratitude. When you stop sharing, you stop caring, when you stop caring, there is not love left. Do not take this lot for granted. Always reinvest. A3. Close friends fallen into dangerous FRENEMIES category These are most dangerous. Check which one of them is running off to your enemies or proactively poking their noise to ally and encourage the toxic people to directly or indirectly pile up more problems for you. Be watchful of those trying to run and manipulate your life in the guise of so called love or family. Remind yourself, Love is absence of judgment - have these frenemies passed this test. Love is also about loyalty under all circumstances - have these frenemies passed this test too. Only you know what is best for you and only you are entitled to run your life. True friends do not impose their morality or judgments on you, they give unsolicited well-intentionde constructive advice but blindly support you regardless. Some of them might be riding the past credits of loyalty to subconsciously destroy you. A picture speaks a thousand words. Give them a chance to clarify, prove their loyalty and/or seek re-demption. If they do not measure up, however sad and painful it may be, then find the courage to cleanup the sakes in cupboard before they secretly sabootage your life more. It will be the hardest and most unplesant thing to do. It may get messy. The key is to face it bluntly and come out emicably without being fake/plastic. But, mince no words in letting them know BLACK & WHITE, LOUD & CLEAR. It is also your test to grow as SILLY Self-Inspired Love and Leadership for Yourself SELF-LEADER. A4. Enemies and toxic relations Neutralize the past and current toxicity. If possible find a closure in an amicable manner. If not, let go, you may justify it in million ways to not forgive or to remain martyr, but ultimately its just your EGO. Forgive anyway. It is a choice you make. Each relationship undergoes the transformation. Life is a game of snakes and ladders. Periodically clean up the sankes and create more ladders to the inner peace, happiness and success. _______________________________________________ B. MY ULTIMATELY POSITIVE EQUATION WITH YOU I had been focusing elsewhere on SHEG. To balance my personal life, I will be coming to many of you for an open, sincere and heart-to-heart talk. When I inbox you, I will first ask you to read this, give you time to digest, set aside a time to converse again. Are you ready? Im excited about lightening the burden, new beginnings, more peaceful and positive life. This is what I am going to do you, you are free to do it me. Hopefully, there will be a synergetic positive match or misunderstanding clarified. B1. Welcome to the new awesome people to my infinitely VISHAL universe. Rock my world and lets conquer the world together B2. I will reconnect and reaffirm the love with the old treasured friends B3. Frenemies, I had been watching you patiently for the last few months to help you reveal yourself. My silence is golden approach obviously failed. Showtime baby, we will either reaffirm the love and loyalty or its game over, honey. I am vegetarian. I love animals and I support the animal rights. But, I do not breed snakes in my pocket I hope you will be open and honest. If you made an error of judgement which resulted in damage to me or made a mistake to hurt me, hope you will be courageous enough to accept it and magnanimous enough to offer to fix the damage you wrecked on me. If not, at least you will not be arrogant, offer lies, be fake or try to get away by blaming others by disowning your damaging role. In worst case, least you could do is stop causing the damage and walk away in silence after setting some ground rules of DOs & DONTs of separation. Failing all of the above, the last final option will be a total mess. To preserve my own positivity, I may not opt for the mutually-assured-total-destruction but it will not be status quo. You can expect some changes which may be uncomfortable or damaging to your own interests. I will not do so out of vengence, but to ensure the self-defence so that you loose the privilege to be my friend and the power to cause more hurt. In case you continue the game, I will be reluctantly forced to resort to some sample progressive phased retaliatory action with incereasing intensity to show you the repercussions of continuing to harm my interests - I can not control you or how you will react, but I sincerely hope it will not come to this. At this stage I still love you, hence the effort on my part. But something has changed, and if we are talking about this then this means I have clear evidence. I do not easily jump to conclusion about the friends. This is a MAKE OR BREAK FINAL discussion. In my eyes, onus will be on you to defend, clear and re-establish your LOYALTY & FRIENDSHIP by your open and honest behavior and corrective ACTIONS. Hint: I am pragmatic enough to have very low expectations from the friends, you could have MYOB at least, what was the need ha? B4. Enemies and toxic relations, let the peace be with us Whatever equation, good or bad, we have now, its time to clean up. We may become closer or we may walk away. Ultimately, whats left will be peace and happiness for all of us I have courage to undertake this operation for my exciting future. I am ready and coming to you. Are you ready and open? Gday. Whenever you open the eyes to the truth, its a new morning. Burrahhhhh!!! ~ No Iffff, No Butttt ... Just Straight Shooting JAT
Posted on: Tue, 12 Aug 2014 21:38:56 +0000
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