FAMILY:BASIC UNIT OF SOCIETY LETS MAKE THIS WORLD A BETTER PLACE...PLZ GIVE ME A FAVOUR REMIMDER (IT STARTS FROM THE DAY FIRST(ENGAGEMENT) WHEN YOU ENTER THIS HOLY BOND) The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) enjoined kind treatment and honouring of one’s wife,and he described the best of people as those who are best to their wives. He said: “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 3895; Ibn Maajah, 1977;classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) spoke beautiful word concerning kind treatment of one’s wife, stating that when the husband feeds his wife and puts a morsel of food in her mouth, he earns the reward of doing an act of charity.He said, “You never spend anything but you will be rewarded for it, even the morsel of food that you lift to your wife’s mouth.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari 6352; Muslim, 1628. And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Fear Allaah with regard to women, for you have taken them as a trust from Allaah and intimacy with them has become permissible to you by the words of Allaah. Your right over them is that they should not allow anyone to sit on your furniture whom you dislike; if they do that then hit them but not in a harsh manner. And their right over you is that you should provide for them and clothe them on a reasonable basis.” Narrated by Muslim, 1218. What is meant by “they should not allow anyone to sit on your furniture whom you dislike” is that they should not allow anyone whom you dislike to enter your houses, whether the person disliked is a man or a woman, or any of the woman’s mahrams [close relatives to whom marriage is forbidden].The prohibition includes all of them. From the words of al-Nawawi. CAUTION “If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have told women to prostrate to their husbands,because of the rights that Allaah has given them over them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (2140) and al-Tirmidhi (1159); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood. GLIMPSE Allahs Apostle said, It is not lawful for a lady to fast (Nawafil) without the permission of her husband when he is at home; and she should not allow anyone to enter his house except with his permission; and if she spends of his wealth (on charitable purposes) without being ordered by him, he will get half of the reward. Hadith - Sahih Al-Bukhari 7.123, Narrated Abu Huraira Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi #3095, Narrated AbuUmamah , Transmitted by Ibn Majah The Prophet used to say, After fear of Allah a believer gains nothing better for himself than a good wife who obeys him if he gives her a command, pleases him if he looks at her, is true to him if he adjures her to do something, and is sincere towards him regarding her person and his property if he is absent. Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi #3254, Narrated Anas ibn Malik Allahs Messenger said, When a woman observes the five times of prayer, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any of the gates of Paradise she wishes.
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