Fan vent; Just needing to vent for a min. I have recently went back to school to get my grade 12 and i am working part time i am also a mother and a step mother. My SO works full time. When he has had a bad day at work or didnt sleep well (which happens often) he gets quiet and cranky with me but is fine when anyone else comes over. After school i come home i come home and clean the house and am usually off to work. But when im not at work id rather be home with him and my daughter but hed rather be playing his video games upstair in the bedroom (his come over on weekends and we all hang out) when i talk to him about things i feel need to be discussed he turns it all around and everything is my fault. Hes negitive about my schooling and always asking if id rather be with someone else. My daughter and i went for a walk the other night and invited him to come with he said he was tired and wanted a shower and to relax so off she and i went. 10 mins later i get a text asking who i was talking to as he drove by in my care which he has no licence...hes always invited by my friends and i the few times i have a few mins and he says no but when i come home he knows where i was who i was with and where we were sitting which is no big deal because he knows before i go out what im doing but his friends send him texts while hes at work saying there are guys in the house so he freaks out...but im either at school or sleeping at that point. His friends watch every move i make when im out and about with out him. I dont feel trusted and ive never given him a reason to think other wise. Sorry for the long rant but i needed to get this off my chest. :: Michelle
Posted on: Sun, 22 Sep 2013 15:09:43 +0000