Fellas; I call this making deposits. Do it or the account you wish to withdraw from will end up having insufficient funds. The point this man was about to make is she complains before he has the chance too. When that happens its because she has been empty for so long that she can no longer sit silent anymore. Think about it like this: if your checking account is -$300, and you deposit $50 can you now make withdrawals? Naw Bruh, you are still $250 in the red. You have two choices: keep making $50 deposits daily or make a $500 deposit. Heres the caviat; after the $500 deposit brings you back into the black, you still need to make $50 deposits on a regular basis (daily). Ladies you dont get off here... When you see the man is trying, as in visibly trying do not say or do ANYTHING to encourage him to stop. Say thank you, say I appreciate you Big Daddy, rub his head, scratch his back or something positive. If you fuss or become negative you will shut him off. The I get more from guys/girls at work line...is madness and a trick of the devil. Of course you get more. They dont see you at your worst, they dont have the privilege of see the ugly sides of you, they get to go home and not have work with and around your dysfunctions 24/7. Remember this: you chose the person you are with for a specific reason. You believed your life would be enhanced without him/her. You knew of all the men/women that wanted you, THIS was the one you could not live without. And that is still true. Work through your issues honestly. Deal with the ugly in truth in love and in respect. Win each other win for each other sacrifice for each other. And do not wait, do it now.
Posted on: Sat, 06 Dec 2014 01:18:07 +0000