Five ways to save ur marriage/relationship!! 1.Give each other space While you must make time to spend together, you also need some time to yourself. Loving and caring for yourself – from reading a favorite book to taking a walk to the store – allows you the chance to clear your mind and miss your spouse. If you are always together, you’ll eventually smother one another. Plus, having separate hobbies, interests, or activities, gives you interesting things to discuss with one another once you are together again. 2. Avoid below-the-belt hits. The way you fight with one another can set the tone for your marriage. Listen, there’s no way you can avoid fighting. You’re going to disagree, and you’re going to have to confront one another about it. It’s actually part of a healthy marriage. But it won’t be healthy at all if you are the kind of fighter who smacks your partner or calls him or her names. You have to learn to fight fairly in marriage just as you did on the playground in primary school. Be a grown up and communicate without the low blows. 3. Find that middle ground. Compromising is an essential part of life – for everything from getting promoted at work to having a successful marriage. You can’t always get your way, but you should be able to discuss your needs and desires. And your spouse should be able to discuss his or hers. Then, together, you must find ways to negotiate and reach a middle ground that satisfies both of you. If you can’t do this, you or your partner (or worse, both of you) will start to build resentment. This will serve as a poison that could kill your marriage. 4. Forgive but never forget. You don’t have to forget the ways you have been done wrong or the experiences that are shaping your opinions and your relationship. But you must learn to forgive your spouse, especially if he or she is genuinely trying to rectify the situation by apologizing and taking steps to fix the mistake or bad behavior. You don’t have to do it for them. But you must do it for yourself. Anger and resentment will eventually wear you down. 5. Woo each other. Romance might seem like a pastime for the young or dating. Truly, romance is for everyone, especially married people who want to keep their marriage fresh and new. Yes, the honeymoon period will end, and you’ll have to face the realities of a lifetime of responsibilities. But love will die if you don’t nourish it. Romance is the nourishment. Tell your spouse you love him or her in ways big and small. Kiss and hug. Do special things for each other. Make sure no one is taken for granted. Everyone should feel special and loved. Your marriage is your number one priority, and romancing your spouse is a great way to remind him or her. #thank_God_4_my_life
Posted on: Tue, 12 Nov 2013 16:09:29 +0000
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