Good morning, everyone! It’s still cool and drippy here, so it’s a good night form corn chowder and rhubard crisp. My younger daughter is coming over for dinner. ;-) I rarely wander into this territory, but it has come to my attention that there are still quite a fair number of unhappy people in the world, and they make it their job to attempt to make other people unhappy so they can feel better. Don’t let that tactic work! I love The Four Agreements, and I especially love the “take nothing personally” agreement. If, in the course of navigating your way happily and lovingly through the day, someone says something mean, or insulting, or erroneous, just smile and keep on moving. Remember that what that person has to say says far more about them than it does about you. They are projecting their hurt and unhappiness onto you and you need to be like Teflon and let it slide right off. There is no need to defend, or get revenge, or acknowledge anything. Try to forgive them as quickly as you can, remembering that you cannot change other people, but you can change the way that you respond. Also, forgiving does not have to include forgetting. In many cases, forgetting would be dangerous and foolish. Just keep rocking on in your own awesomeness and it that drives someone crazy it is not your problem. Have a super morning! Xoxoxo
Posted on: Wed, 12 Jun 2013 12:22:12 +0000
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